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Entertainment May 29, 2026

Fairyland Review: A Moving Memoir of Queer Parenting in 1970s San Francisco

The film 'Fairyland' is a moving memoir of queer parenting and new kinds of family in 1970s San Fra…
The Lead 'Fairyland' offers a glorious wallow in nostalgia for those familiar with the Bay Area in the 1970s and 80s, with grainy archive footage of San Francisco Gay Freedom parades and sushi at a book launch. But at its core, the film tells the story of a new kind of family. Queer Parenting in 1970s San Francisco The film centers around Steve (Scoot McNairy), a gay father raising his young daughter Alysia (Nessa Dougherty, then Coda's Emilia Jones as a teen) in San Francisco. After his wife, Alysia's mother, is killed in a car accident, Steve is faced with the challenge of parenting alone. He turns down an offer from his ultra-straight mother-in-law (Geena Davis) to raise the little girl. Parenting Techniques and Resilience Steve's parenting techniques are sometimes selfish and neglectful, but he loves Alysia deeply. He encourages her independence, teaching her to navigate the city and take care of herself. The film draws comparisons to Marielle Heller's adaptation of The Diary of a Teenage Girl, but Alysia turns out to be more resilient and independent. The Impact of the AIDS Epidemic The film's second half covers the later 80s, as the AIDS epidemic takes a devastating toll on the community. The cast, including McNairy and Jones, deliver excellent performances. Writer-director Andrew Durham adapts Alysia Abbott's memoir with sensitivity and discretion. The Future of Queer Representation 'Fairyland' is a significant contribution to queer representation in film. With its release in UK cinemas on May 29, it promises to resonate with audiences and spark important conversations about family, love, and identity.
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Tech May 28, 2026

AI Token Futures Emerge as Financial Markets Bet on AI's Future Value

Major financial exchanges are developing futures markets for AI tokens and GPU rentals, creating ne…
The Rise of AI Financial MarketsThe most important market of the future could be in LLM tokens — and financial groups are rushing to build new infrastructure for them. China's Shanghai Futures Exchange is currently designing a derivatives market for AI tokens, while major derivatives exchanges CME Group and the Intercontinental Exchange (the owner of the NYSE) have separately announced they're working on launching futures contracts for renting GPUs.Building the AI Derivatives InfrastructureGPU markets are still maturing, but given the wide range of companies using, selling, and renting GPUs, there's already a robust market for spot prices on GPU rental, typically charged by the hour. This has prompted major financial players to develop futures contracts that would allow businesses to hedge against fluctuating compute costs.Enterprise plans for major AI companies are commonly denominated in tokens: OpenAI, for example, charges $5 per million input tokens, and $30 per million output tokens if you want to use the API for its latest GPT-5.5 model. Even cloud providers are increasingly offering the opportunity to charge per token, as in Amazon's Bedrock system.The Economics of GPU and Token PricingAccording to data from AI Mining Co., which tracks daily GPU rental pricing across 28 marketplaces and cloud providers, median prices for Nvidia H100 GPUs ranged from $1.40 to $4.27 per hour across 13 marketplaces, while the average price for H200 GPUs were between $2.34 and $5 per hour across 10 marketplaces.Just over the past seven days, average H100 prices ranged from $2.79 to $3.33, showing the volatility that makes futures contracts attractive for risk management.Transforming the AI Investment LandscapeThe effort comes amid an unprecedented buildout of AI infrastructure. Cloud service providers, private equity firms, and infrastructure players alike have poured hundreds of billions into building data centers, anticipating that demand for GPUs and compute will continue to rise.An emerging crop of global neocloud companies is also vying for a piece of this demand. Some of these new entrants are specializing, focusing on inference, while others are competing with cloud giants like Oracle, AWS, and Google Cloud to offer their services to AI companies.The Future of AI Financial InstrumentsBy targeting AI tokens, the Shanghai exchange's derivative product would be tied to how AI companies price their services, giving businesses, investors, and data center operators a way to hedge against the cost of compute. As AI becomes increasingly central to business operations, these financial instruments will likely become essential components of the technology investment ecosystem.
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World Wide May 28, 2026

US Strikes Bandar Abbas: Escalating Tensions in the Strait of Hormuz

The United States has carried out strikes near Bandar Abbas, Iran's strategically important port ci…
The US Strikes on Bandar Abbas The United States has carried out strikes near Bandar Abbas, the second attack in less than a week on Iran’s strategically important port city, escalating tensions around the Strait of Hormuz despite a fragile ceasefire that has been in place between Washington and Tehran since April 8. Details of the Attack Reuters and The Associated Press, quoting unnamed US officials, reported that US forces shot down four Iranian drones and struck a ground control station for drones on Wednesday in Bandar Abbas. The strikes followed explosions in Bandar Abbas on Tuesday. Iran’s Ministry of Foreign Affairs accused Washington of violating the ceasefire through “aggressive acts” in Hormozgan province, where the port city is located. Significance of Bandar Abbas Bandar Abbas, home to key Iranian naval forces, occupies one of the most strategically sensitive positions in the Gulf. Its location on the Strait of Hormuz has made it central to both Iran’s military position and the wider confrontation with the US. Bandar Abbas lies on Iran’s southern coast, on the northern side of the Strait of Hormuz, the narrow waterway linking the Gulf to the Gulf of Oman and Arabian Sea. The city had a population of more than 526,000 people at the time of Iran’s 2016 census. Military Significance Bandar Abbas is the headquarters of both Iran’s conventional navy and the naval arm of the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps (IRGC). The conventional navy has used it as its base since 1977 when Iran moved much of its fleet from Khorramshahr at the western edge of Iran’s Gulf coastline, to Bandar Abbas, transforming the city into the country’s main southern naval command centre. According to the Middle East Institute, the IRGC navy later relocated its headquarters from Tehran to Bandar Abbas to improve operational control along the Strait of Hormuz. Economic Importance The Strait of Hormuz is not just a military chokepoint but also an economic lifeline. Analysts estimated that more than 90 percent of Iranian crude shipments transit through the strait. That makes Bandar Abbas and nearby Gulf infrastructure critical to government revenues, including the trade networks that help Iran circumvent sanctions, particularly by exporting oil to China. Impact on Peace Negotiations Diplomatic and military operations are unfolding simultaneously as Iran and the US have exchanged a volley of proposals and counterproposals for peace since the ceasefire began. “This is unfolding on parallel tracks. There is a military track and a negotiating track all unfolding at the same time,” said Samir Puri, a visiting lecturer in war studies at King’s College London. “The negotiators can only present the leverage they have from the field of battle.
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Politics May 28, 2026

For Gaza, Eid joy is now a form of resistance

Despite ongoing conflict, Palestinians in Gaza are finding ways to celebrate Eid, turning their joy…
The LeadIn the midst of ongoing conflict and hardship, Palestinians in Gaza are finding ways to celebrate Eid, transforming what should be a joyous occasion into a powerful form of resistance. This cultural resilience demonstrates the strength of the human spirit even in the face of extreme adversity.Celebrating Amidst AdversityEid, one of the most important religious holidays in Islam, traditionally marks the end of Ramadan, the holy month of fasting. For Gazans, this year's celebrations have taken on added significance as they continue to navigate the challenges of daily life under blockade and conflict. Despite limited resources and security concerns, families are making efforts to maintain traditions, prepare special foods, and gather for prayers, turning these acts into statements of defiance against their circumstances.The Symbolism of JoyIn a region marked by suffering and loss, the decision to celebrate carries profound political meaning. Each smile, each shared meal, and each moment of togetherness becomes an act of resistance against those who seek to diminish Palestinian dignity and culture. Community leaders note that maintaining cultural practices is essential to preserving identity and hope for future generations.International ResponseThe celebrations in Gaza have drawn attention from international observers and human rights organizations. Many have highlighted the contrast between the resilience shown by Palestinians and the ongoing challenges they face. Some international aid organizations have made special efforts to ensure that Gazans have access to basic necessities during the holiday, though access remains limited due to the blockade.Looking ForwardAs Eid concludes, Gazans face an uncertain future, with ongoing political tensions and humanitarian concerns. However, the spirit of resistance demonstrated through celebration serves as a reminder of the enduring strength of Palestinian culture and community. The ability to find joy in difficult circumstances continues to be a powerful form of resistance that transcends the immediate challenges of the present moment.
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Sports May 28, 2026

Luis Enrique's Controlled Chaos: PSG's Strategy for Champions League Glory After Ligue 1 Dominance

PSG manager Luis Enrique admits to embracing less control as his team prepares for the Champions Le…
The Lead: Embracing Chaos for European Glory "Every year I have less and less control," Luis Enrique admitted last week. It may be a surprising remark from a manager whose success with Paris Saint-Germain has earned him unprecedented sway, but it is a good description of his team's uninhibited performances on the European stage. "We need to be constantly changing," he went on. "In modern football you need to have a bit less control in order to surprise your opponents." The Tactical Approach: PSG's Unique Preparation Strategy Off the pitch, though, PSG run a tight operation. Last Wednesday's Uefa-mandated media day offered a glimpse at the club's preparations before the Champions League final, including a rare chance to witness a full training session. Such was the domestic and international interest that dozens of journalists were left watching a stream of Luis Enrique's press conference from a room upstairs. PSG will have gone two weeks without a game before facing Arsenal in Budapest. A schedule of intrasquad friendlies and tactical breakdowns was put in place, rather than an intensive boot camp. "I think we do things a bit differently to the majority of teams," Luis Enrique said. "Rest is very important to me, to have those moments where you can decide where you want to be. I want the players to be happy to come to training." The Squad Management: Balancing Domestic and European Priorities One of the areas in which Luis Enrique does exert control is in his meticulous squad management. Given the team's lack of time off last summer owing to the Club World Cup and a spate of injuries this season, this aspect of the Spaniard's management has been increasingly important. Ousmane Dembélé is one of several senior players to have missed a large part of PSG's 14th Ligue 1 title campaign in 2025-26. A couple of weeks ago, the France international was voted by his peers as Ligue 1's player of the season despite starting only nine games until then (11, by the end of the season). His scarce playing time was not entirely down to rotation, however, given that he struggled with hamstring and calf injuries at separate stages. Marquinhos, meanwhile, was mostly spared from Ligue 1 duties from mid-February. Conveniently, the captain's absence from domestic matches coincided with Illia Zabarnyi finding form after a shaky start to his first season in Paris. None of the Champions League starters played more than 2,000 minutes in the league apart from Warren Zaïre-Emery and Vitinha (for context, Declan Rice played 3,099 league minutes for Arsenal and is one of six starters against Burnley this month north of the 2,000 mark). Only Zaïre-Emery, by virtue of his tireless versatility, made more than 30 league appearances. The 20-year-old, in his fourth season in the first team, filled in impressively at right-back at the start before reverting to a more familiar midfield role while Fabián Ruiz was injured. The Controversy: Schedule Adjustments and Fan Backlash Opposition fans have lamented what they regard as preferential treatment for PSG, the team having benefited from schedule readjustments on their way to a fifth consecutive title. In order to accommodate their European title defence, the Ligue de Football Professionnel (LFP) agreed to push back two matches, against Nantes and Lens, which would have been sandwiched between knockout European ties. Whereas Nantes agreed to postpone their match, Lens made a public show of going against their title rivals' request. The eventual runners-up argued that postponing the match meant "adapting to the demands of the most powerful, in the name of interests which seemingly go beyond the domestic scope". PSG pointed to an imperative of helping Ligue 1's Uefa coefficient and the precedent set in previous seasons when other clubs' continental campaigns were accommodated. When both matches were eventually played in midweek slots, opposition fans were loud and clear in expressing their discontent. "Qatar is killing French football" read one banner in Lens, where fans also criticised the LFP. A similar message unfurled by Nantes fans at the Parc des Princes a few weeks back led to clashes with stewards. The League Dominance: PSG's Path to Another Title By the time the top-of-the-table clash was played, PSG had a six-point lead with two games remaining. Luis Enrique's second XI, featuring academy graduates and bench players, had managed more often than not to grind out wins against defensive opponents, with the help of late cameos from the usual starters. It left the leading lights in Khvicha Kvaratskhelia, Désiré Doué, and Dembélé to focus on shining in Europe. PSG were troubled in individual matches, with Monaco achieving the league double over them, but no challengers other than Lens managed to offer any resistance in the second half of the season. This is in part down to the poor state of French teams' finances, a situation exacerbated by successive broadcast deals collapsing and a lack of long-term planning by the league authorities. The Final Showdown: Preparing for Arsenal in Budapest As PSG prepares to face Arsenal in the Champions League final, Luis Enrique's philosophy of controlled chaos will be put to the ultimate test. Having secured another domestic title with relative ease, the focus now shifts to European glory. The Spaniard's approach of prioritizing rest and managing his squad meticulously has positioned PSG as favorites, but Arsenal's own domestic success presents a formidable challenge. The final will be a clash of contrasting styles and philosophies, with Luis Enrique's unpredictable approach facing off against Mikel Arteta's structured system. For PSG, it represents the opportunity to complete a remarkable season by adding European success to their domestic dominance.
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Sports May 28, 2026

Steve Clarke Signs Scotland Contract Extension Until 2030

Scotland manager Steve Clarke has signed a four-year contract extension, keeping him in charge unti…
The Lead Scotland's manager, Steve Clarke, has signed a four-year contract extension, meaning he will remain in place until the end of the country's 2030 World Cup campaign. Historic Contract Extension The fresh, improved terms are no surprise but the length of deal will raise eyebrows given Clarke has been in position since 2019. Should he complete the term, he will become Scotland men's longest-serving manager. Clarke's Transformation of Scottish Football Clarke had initially been publicly confident he would step away after this summer's World Cup. The 62-year-old has taken Scotland to three tournaments from a possible four, with this World Cup a first since 1998. More recently, Clarke spoke of remaining in post. Player and Leadership Support The Scottish Football Association has always been agreeable to Clarke as the manager, despite disappointing displays at the past two European Championships. Scotland's players, including Scott McTominay, have also backed Clarke to remain. Clarke's Vision for Scottish Football "I'm proud to continue as head coach," Clarke said. "I know the Scotland supporters appreciate the achievements of this group in qualifying for back-to-back Euros and equally sure the whole nation rejoiced in our qualification for World Cup 2026 after such a long time." Building for the Future "It's very important to look ahead and plan for the future and, while my squad will be doing everything in their power to compete and make the country proud in the America this summer, it also gives us certainty ahead of the tournament knowing that we can look to build on those foundations for the long-term and it is a privilege to continue in this role." Challenges Ahead Mulholland's task is not a straightforward one. With top clubs dominating the Scottish football scene and typically not giving regular game time to young players from the country, the future looks tricky. Scottish FA's Perspective Ian Maxwell, the Scottish FA's chief executive, said: "During our discussions about the future we were all agreed that we cannot rest on our achievements or ever take qualification for granted. The passion and enthusiasm with which he discussed that road map emphasises that this will not simply be a continuation but a renewed purpose and focus over the next four years." Upcoming Matches Scotland's World Cup preparations continue with the visit of Curaçao to Hampden Park on Saturday.
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Entertainment May 28, 2026

Lost Surrealist Masterpiece from Leonora Carrington's Psychiatric Confinement to Debut in London

A lost painting by surrealist artist Leonora Carrington, created during her confinement in a Spanis…
A Surrealist Masterpiece Emerges from the Depths of Psychiatric ConfinementA recently discovered painting by the surrealist artist Leonora Carrington, made during her confinement in a Spanish psychiatric hospital during the second world war, will go on public display for the first time in London this summer. Known as Villa Pilar, the work was painted in 1940 while Carrington was a patient at sanatorium Morales in Santander, after fleeing Nazi-occupied France following the arrest of her partner, the German artist Max Ernst.The Unveiling of a Hidden Masterpiece from a Turbulent PeriodCarrington suffered a psychological breakdown in Madrid and was admitted to the institution, where she underwent traumatic psychiatric treatments that she later described in her memoir Down Below. But encouraged by her psychiatrist, Dr Luis Morales, Carrington sketched each day, and created two paintings, Down Below and Villa Pilar, which depict the psychiatric hospital as a symbolic underworld. Carrington described her "down below" period as an experience akin to "being dead."A Life Marked by Rebellion and Artistic InnovationBorn into a wealthy Lancashire family in 1917, Carrington rebelled early against the expectations placed on upper-class women. She studied at the Chelsea School of Art before meeting Ernst at a dinner party in London in 1937, when she was 20 and he was 46. The two began a relationship that scandalised their respective social circles and moved together to Saint-Martin-d'Ardèche in the south of France, where they lived and worked until the German invasion.She found kindred artistic spirits in renowned surrealists like André Breton, Salvador Dalí, and Man Ray, who, like her, were fascinated by dreams, the subconscious and the occult. When she eventually settled in Mexico in the 1940s, she became one of the country's most celebrated artists and part of an influential community of women creatives working outside the male-dominated European surrealist movement – alongside figures including the Spanish painter Remedios Varo and the photographer Kati Horna.Carrington was later embraced as a feminist icon, and she always resisted attempts to reduce her to her gender, once remarking: "I didn't have time to be anyone's muse ... I was too busy rebelling against my family and learning to be an artist." She died in Mexico City in 2011, aged 94.The Rediscovery and Symbolic Meaning of Villa PilarCarrington gave Villa Pilar to Dr Morales when she left the sanatorium, and it remained in his family for decades. It was only rediscovered during research for the exhibition by the Faro Santander team, who persuaded the Morales family to loan it publicly for the first time.Vanessa Boni, curator of the exhibition, said Carrington created the work as "a parting gift" to thank Morales for helping her recovery, despite the "brutal" treatments she endured, including cardiazol injections. "As we know from her memoir, it was really traumatic," she said. "Dr Morales kept the painting his entire life, and when he passed away, it was handed down to his daughter."The work depicts the hospital as being populated by hybrid human-animal figures moving through vivid green gardens – imagery that would become central to Carrington's later practice. "It speaks to ideas of inner transformation, metamorphosis and otherness," Boni said. "Both paintings are set in a verdant green landscape, including a green sky, which was a symbolic colour for her."A Transatlantic Exhibition JourneyVilla Pilar will join the exhibition Leonora Carrington – the Symptomatic Surreal at the Freud museum, where Sigmund Freud spent the final year of his life after escaping Nazi-occupied Vienna. To mark the unveiling, the exhibition has been extended until 10 August before travelling to Faro Santander, a new arts centre in the northern Spanish city, in September.Daniel Vega Pérez de Arlucea, director of Faro Santander, said: "This is not simply a matter of showcasing the work of one of the most important surrealist artists, but of recognising and revisiting a chapter of her life deeply rooted in this city."After leaving Santander, Carrington travelled through Lisbon and New York before settling in Mexico, where she became one of the leading figures of surrealism. In 2024, one of her paintings was auctioned for £22.5m, a record for a UK-born female artist.While in New York, Carrington gave her Santander sketchbooks to the surrealist collector Julien Levy, whose collection was sold at auction and dispersed into private collections in 2004. This exhibition marks the first attempts since then to bring the contents together for a major public display.
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Sports May 28, 2026

Bosnia's Unexpected Journey to World Cup 2026

Bosnia and Herzegovina's surprising qualification for the 2026 World Cup, their journey under coach…
Bosnia's Unexpected World Cup JourneyBosnia and Herzegovina's qualification for the 2026 World Cup comes as a surprise to many observers. A team that had managed only four wins in their previous 19 matches across two qualification cycles reached a turning point when Sergej Barbarez took over in 2024. The campaign that followed was chaotic, emotional and occasionally irrational, which still feels like the most authentic description of Bosnian football itself. Barbarez's side somehow found a way through it all, eliminating Wales and Italy in dramatic playoffs and reaching the World Cup for only the second time in the country's history.The Barbarez RevolutionThe former captain had waited years for the job, so long that he had not coached anywhere in the meantime. He played professional poker and enjoyed retirement before the Bosnian FA finally got in touch. He gathered close friends and former teammates around him: Emir Spahic became sporting director, while Sasa Papac and Zlatan Bajramovic joined the coaching staff. In Barbarez's first year, 16 players made their debuts, most of them raised and developed abroad, from Sweden and Germany to Austria and the United States. That became the foundation of this new Bosnia side.Group B Fixtures12 June v Canada, Toronto (3pm local, 8pm BST)18 June v Switzerland, Los Angeles (noon local, 8pm BST)24 June v Qatar, Seattle (noon local, 8pm BST)The Coach's PhilosophyBosnia do not play especially beautiful football under the coach and systems change regularly – usually between 4-2-3-1 and 4-4-2 – but formations quickly become secondary once matches turn emotional, and with Bosnia they usually do. The team's identity is built around aggressive defending, direct football and quick transitions. Barbarez may have gone winless in his first eight matches and come under heavy criticism, but he insisted that he first needed to rebuild the squad's mentality.The Poker Coach Who Became a National HeroSergej Barbarez spent years criticising the way Bosnian football was run and had almost stopped expecting the call from Sarajevo altogether, having first expressed an interest in the role in 2009. Fifteen years later he took charge of the national team – with no previous coaching experience – for the first team against England at the age of 52. A former captain and cult figure, Barbarez arrived promising honesty, emotional connection and a complete reset after years of dysfunction around the national team. After playoff victories over Wales and Italy, his status only grew further; the win against Italy transformed him from poker-playing outsider into one of Bosnia and Herzegovina's most important ever sporting figures.The Veteran Leader: Edin DzekoThere are normal footballers and then there is Edin Dzeko. Even at 40, everything still somehow revolves around Edin. Bosnia and Herzegovina's captain remains the country's greatest footballer, their all-time leading goalscorer and the reference point of an entire generation. Younger players in the squad speak about him with a reverence bordering on disbelief. Dzeko no longer dominates matches physically the way he once did at Wolfsburg or Manchester City, but his understanding of space, timing and pressure moments remains elite. During the playoffs he again delivered when Bosnia needed him most. "As long as I feel I can help, I'll be here," he said recently. Bosnia would not be at this World Cup without him.The Rising Star: Kerim AlajbegovicKerim Alajbegovic, at 18, may already be the most naturally gifted attacking talent Bosnia and Herzegovina have produced since Miralem Pjanic. The midfielder, who spent a season with Red Bull Salzburg before Bayer Leverkusen triggered a buyout clause, is arriving at the tournament with the fearless attitude some players have at that age. It is not only his technique that stands out, but his personality too. Barbarez trusted the 18-year-old to take penalties in both playoff shootouts – and Alajbegovic responded with complete calmness. Elegant between the lines and fearless in possession, he feels like the face of Bosnia's next generation.The Unsung Hero: Tarik MuharemovicBosnia and Herzegovina spent years producing centre-backs who defended first and worried about the football later. However, Tarik Muharemovic feels like the first one shaped by an entirely different mindset. Born in Slovenia and developed in Austria before moving through Italian football with Juventus and Sassuolo, the left-footed defender has quietly become one of the players Barbarez trusts most. He is not especially loud, aggressive or dramatic, which, for a defender, normally makes people in Balkan football suspicious. Instead Muharemovic solves problems calmly, carries the ball forward and gives Bosnia something they lacked for years – composure.Tournament OutlookBosnia are unlikely to dominate many matches in Group B – against Canada, Switzerland and Qatar – but they have enough quality, emotional energy and unpredictability to become one of the tournament's more uncomfortable teams. With a blend of experienced leadership in Dzeko and emerging talent in Alajbegovic, Barbarez has created a squad that embodies the chaotic yet passionate spirit of Bosnian football.
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Lifestyle May 28, 2026

You be the judge: should my girlfriend stop trying to make our lives plastic‑free?

A couple grapples with the push to eliminate plastics from their home as they prepare for a baby, w…
The prosecution: MelanieI want to live a healthier life too, but removing all plastics is unrealistic and unaffordableMy girlfriend, Amy, has become increasingly concerned about microplastics and environmental toxins, and it is starting to feel a little too much. It all began after she watched online content about how plastics affect fertility, and has escalated into a broader effort to remove anything she considers “toxic” from our home.We have thrown out hundreds of pounds’ worth of cleaning products and replaced toothbrushes and dental floss. I came home from work to find all our plastic food containers had been binned, and now she wants to discuss replacing furniture, like swapping our white plastic dining table for an oak one.In principle, I understand it will be better for us. I share her desire to live a healthier lifestyle, especially as we are trying for a baby using a donor and I will be the one carrying the pregnancy. However, the pace and the intensity of the change feels a bit unmanageable.If I pick up a plastic bottle of water, Amy will snatch it from my hands and say it’s poisonousWe can’t realistically eliminate all plastics and find alternatives overnight. Unfortunately, the world is full of plastic and so is our home: we have polyester cushions, plastic shoes and appliances that I’m not prepared to chuck out. Attempting a total removal feels financially and emotionally unsustainable. Buying a new dining table won’t be easy on our wallets.We are both self‑employed and saving for a baby, so we need to be frugal. Plastic‑free products are often deemed as specialist and it’s hard to get cheap alternatives. When I found Amy had splurged on all these organic cleaning products I was shocked, because they cost about £200.At the moment, it feels as if any “normal” behaviour is deemed to be unsafe by her. If I pick up a plastic bottle of water, Amy will snatch it from my hands and say it’s poisonous.I support her decision to live with fewer toxins, but her level of vigilance is harming our wellbeing. I want us to make healthier choices, but to do so gradually and realistically, rather than through sweeping changes that leave us feeling anxious and restricted.The defence: AmyI’m conscious of what we’re exposed to as we’re trying for a baby and I want the best for themPlastics and chemicals are everywhere. I’m not pretending we can eliminate them all, but I’d like to make some changes. I don’t think the only rational response when presented with all the information about toxins and plastics is to shrug and accept it without question.It’s not that hard to make some changes. Mel says: “Microplastics are everywhere, so where does it end?” But she should be saying: “What can we do to start?”Small changes help improve our health. I watched a documentary and it really scared me: I learned that just brushing my teeth with my normal toothbrush was releasing hundreds of thousands of microplastics into my mouth every day. These are linked to illness and altered brain functionality.Mel hasn’t heard all of the facts. If she watched the same documentary, she would feel the sameI didn’t start looking into endocrine disruptors and microplastics because I wanted to overhaul our home overnight. It was because we’re trying for a baby and that makes me more conscious of what we’re exposed to. If we have a child, I want them to have the best start in life and be as healthy as possible.Sometimes Mel acts as if I’m trying to dismantle our entire life, but I’m just trying to make things better. Switching cleaning products and replacing plastic food storage with glass will benefit us for years. When I threw our cleaning products away, it was because I had done the research and knew how much better nontoxic ones would be for us. That wasn’t a gradual adjustment, but I don’t regret it.I feel overwhelmed sometimes, but being told to “calm down” or “take it slow” doesn’t help. I don’t want to make our lives miserable. I want us to make informed choices together.Not drinking from plastic bottles is an easy change we can make, as is using better cleaning products. Mel and I need to work together on this, and active participation is important to me. If my decisions seem rash, it’s only because Mel hasn’t heard all of the facts. If she watched the same documentary she would feel the same. I don’t want to scare her, but making our home safer for our unborn child is a priority.The jury of Guardian readersGetting rid of plastic won’t make Amy and Melanie’s home healthier if they replace it with pressure and resentment. Amy’s pursuit is noble, but her cold‑turkey approach risks alienating Melanie from the cause.Estelle, 27They both want to live with fewer toxins, but Amy shouldn’t decide the pace at which they do this without agreement from Melanie. Amy throwing out all plastic containers and cleaning products without any discussion contradicts her claim that she wants “to make informed choices together”.Val, 68Life’s too short to make it hard for yourself. Carrying containers everywhere and only going to specialist retailers? No one’s got time for that when there’s work and chores to be done. Changing your life after one documentary is extreme, and Amy should consider the benefits of plastic.Ivan, 29We can’t live perfect lives, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try to make better choices. I think they plan together what can change now and what can wait, Melanie might feel part of it instead of feeling it is something being done to her.Michael, 39Amy is valiant in trying to live a healthier lifestyle, but not making it a joint decision with Melanie seems to be detrimental to their relationship, and they need to be working together when they have a child. I wonder if Amy’s obsession might be masking a deeper issue.Jon, 50Now you be the judgeIn our online poll, tell us: should Amy bin her hatred of plastics?The poll closes on Wednesday 3 June at 9am BSTLast week’s resultsWe asked, should Martin stop telling his wife how to mop the floor?98% of you said yes – Martin is guilty2% of you said no – Martin is innocent
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