Roberto De Zerbi's Apology for Mason Greenwood Comments Highlights Male Violence Against Women in Football

Roberto De Zerbi, the new head coach of Tottenham, recently apologized for his past comments about Mason Greenwood, a forward he managed at Marseille. De Zerbi's apology was seen as insufficient by some, as it focused on his self-description rather than taking accountability for his words. Greenwood had denied charges of attempted rape, controlling and coercive behavior, and assault occasioning actual bodily harm in 2022, and the case was discontinued.

The conversation around De Zerbi and Greenwood has brought the issue of male violence against women back to the center of football's public discourse. Research has shown that men who perpetrate serious harm rarely identify themselves as perpetrators, and instead displace blame onto the victim, alcohol, or circumstance. This is why character references, although sincerely offered, are often inadequate in addressing the issue.

Male violence against women is not an isolated issue, but rather a product of societal norms that shape what is seen, named, and tolerated. The World Health Organization and decades of academic research on gender and masculinity have consistently identified these norms as the root cause of the problem. Football is not immune to this issue, and research has shown that strong group cultures in sport can inhibit men from speaking up against harmful behavior.

Men in positions of power, such as De Zerbi, have a responsibility to use their platform to speak out against male violence and to educate others about the impact of their behavior. Genuine ownership and accountability require men to name what was wrong with their actions, accept the impact of their behavior, and commit to not repeating it. De Zerbi's response fell short of this standard, and instead offered a character reference for himself.

Football has a unique influence on society, particularly among young men, and it is essential that players, managers, and clubs use this influence to shape positive attitudes and behaviors. The heat generated by this incident has put male violence against women on the front pages of sports coverage, and it is crucial that the game uses this momentum to have a serious conversation about what it teaches, tolerates, and expects of men at every level.